Indianapolis Indiana Domestic Violence Batterers Intervention Program. Counseling for dysfunctional relationships, domestic violence, anger control, family violence, intimidation, mental abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and power and control struggles. Locations in Greenwood, IN and Shelbyville, IN. Online classes available.
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Do you have an abuse problem?

If you are concerned about being abusive with your partner, ask yourself these questions and consider them as the warning signs of a problem.

  • Do you feel that sometimes you just snap and lose it?

  • Do you say or do things you later regret?

  • Was there violence in your family?

  • During conflict do you often threaten others, break things, punch walls, slam doors, ignore them, or leave?

  • Do you have mood swings, where one moment you feel loving and affectionate, and the next moment angry and threatening?

  • Have you ever used physical violence (shoved, grabbed, hit, slapped, choked, etc.) with your partner, or any past partners?

  • Do you tend to blame others for your behavior, especially your parents, partner, or children?

  • Are you a very jealous person?

  • Do you try to control how your partner thinks, dresses, who they see, who they look at or talk to, how they spend their time, how they spend their money?

  • Do you try to discourage your partner from seeing their friends or family?

  • Do you get angry or resentful when your partner is successful in a job or hobby?

  • Do your conversations quickly escalate into threats of separation or divorce?

  • Do you ever threaten to hurt your partner, yourself, or others, if they talk about leaving you?

  • Do you do or say things that are designed to make another person feel "crazy" or "stupid"?

  • Do you blame alcohol, drugs, stress, or other life events for your behavior?

  • Do you feel guilty after aggressive behavior and then strive for forgiveness?

  • Do you think that you could never live without your partner, yet other times want them out?

  • Do you use sex, money, privileges, or other favors as a way to "make up" after conflict in order to stop feeling guilty?

  • Is your partner or child afraid of you sometimes?

Answering yes to any of these questions indicates an abuse problem.


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Nonviolent Alternatives is a service of

Abuse Counseling & Education, Inc.
a 501(c)(3) Public Charity Not For Profit Company